Old and New, but Never Changing

It’s another new year!  This is when we focus on the old giving way to the new.  If last year was not a positive one, we’re glad that it’s gone and hope the new one will be better.  In the event that the last year was good then we hope the new one will be even better.  Either way, it’s a time of transition that tempts us to wish for “better times”.  That means we want something to change, which can be a very good thing.  Change usually means that the new stuff won’t be consistent with the old stuff.  Again, if the old stuff was painful, rejective, defeating, or discouraging, the inconsistency brought about by change is a welcome dynamic.

But don’t we also long for some things to stay just the same?  Aren’t there circumstances in life sometimes that we wish could stay just the way they are right now?  I think so.  Unfortunately, even those treasures are subject to change, transition, and inconsistency.  So what treasure can we latch onto that will never change, fade, die, rot, or otherwise escape our grasp?  Only one.

The Bible teaches us that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever.  This is a problem if we believe he is cruel and punishing, because it means we’ll never get a break.  However, the God who presents himself in the Bible is altogether loving, accepting, and gracious.  If we have come alive in him through Jesus Christ, then there is absolutely NOTHING we can do or say that will ever cause him to reject us.  His love never changes or fades.  He isn’t moody, so his unconditional acceptance for us will never become conditional.  He promised to never turn his back on us or withdraw his presence from our lives, so we’ll never ever be alone again.  Who else can we depend upon for this kind of total commitment?  No one.

Because I grew up in a preacher’s house I heard these things taught from the day I was born.  But it wasn’t until a couple of years ago that the truths of God’s changelessness became real life for me.  During the 13 months that my late wife, Marie, fought and lost her second battle with cancer, I experienced the total consistency of God.  It might sound strange to you that such a brutal circumstance could produce such a deep revelation, but it’s true.  Many times during those terrible, helpless days I leaned upon Jesus for strength and comfort.  And every time I asked the Father where he was, he would softly say, “Right here, son, right here.”  He didn’t reject me when I shook my fists in anger at him for taking my wife away.  He didn’t stop loving me when I screamed out my accusations that a loving God would never allow such a cruel thing to happen.  Finally, he didn’t abandon me when I tried to run away from him.

Do I have full understanding of why Marie died such an agonizing death?  Not at all.  In fact, I have a lot more questions than answers.  But one thing I do understand is that those 13 months didn’t change God, they changed me.  Now I know first-hand that I am free to change, grow, fail, succeed, question, rejoice, grieve, and experience all the transition that life throws at me while being held by a faithful, dependable, loving Father who is both old and new, but will never, never, never change.  That gives me a peace and hope that nothing and no one else can provide.

How about you?  Have you come alive to the one who knows you best, loves you most, and will never change his mind or heart about you?  If not, I encourage you to say “yes” to Jesus, and enter the embrace of God the Father.  He longs to be the anchor of your life.

Derryck McLuhan

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